An erotic massage session can never be truly satisfying and sensual if you do not plan things properly from the beginning. Taking your time to do various things that enhance the mood is almost as important as using your best massage techniques during the actual massage.
How do you set the mood?
Erotic massage sessions are meant to be both sensual and pleasant in every possible way. In order to make your experience satisfying for both of you involved, remember to follow all the steps given below as carefully and sincerely as you can:
Make your session very private
Before you begin the actual journey, take measures to ensure privacy. Turn off your phone, arrange your child to go somewhere, and get rid of any other potential distraction or interruption that may occur.
Pick a suitable location
Even though it is possible to give or receive massages on couches or on the floor, it is much more preferable to use the comfort of a bed. In addition to choosing a suitable massage spot, you must also keep certain that the temperature of the air is relaxing enough. That is, the room should not be too cold, or too hot.
In order to create an ambience that is romantic, as well as sensual, get the lights dimmed and play relaxing romantic songs in the background. Also, light a few massage candles that not only make your whole room magical, but also provide subtle sweet fragrance, along with bestowing romantic glow.
If you choose a massage parlour or a private escort service, everything should be already provided, if not you can buy massaging candles especially designed for giving romantic massages. Those candles not only assure romance in the air, but also turn into warm massage oil after melting – oil which is truly ideal to give warm sensual massages.
Suggest your partner a bath
Before starting your massage routine, ask your partner to indulge in a luxurious romantic bath having candles, bath salts and other sensual elements. After your partner gets bathed, he or she will be very fresh. That is a very ideal state to be in when it comes to enjoying an erotic massage to follow.
The actual massaging part
Erotic massages and if they are to be followed by passionate sex, are meant to be personal and sensual in nature. These are used in order to heighten the senses and arouse both the persons involved. So, you need not get all worked up about the perfect techniques. Instead, just focus on massaging your mate sensually enough to get him or her excited. Focus on making it enjoyable.
Start with slow and gentle movements. As long as you are sensitive toward your partner’s reactions, you will be able to adjust your massaging technique effectively to please him or her. It is not possible to give great massages without practice; however, you must also remember that it is nearly impossible to deliver someone a bad massage. Just focus on making your strokes rhythmic and tender.
In order to begin, simply get little bit of massage oil on your hands, or some cream, and warm the same before you start rubbing. In case you decide to use the oil provided by massage candles, you will not have to warm since the oil will be warmed already slightly above the normal body temperature after being melted.
There is no wrong or right place to start your massage. However, most people prefer their partner to lie with his or her back facing the wall. One way is to start near the shoulders, and then gradually massage the neck area. Then, go down the shoulder region again, and after that massage the arms, which should be followed by upper back part, lower back part, and buttock region. After that comes thighs, then calves, and at last, the feet!
After massaging the back, you can request your partner to lie on the opposite direction. After that, you can choose to start toward the feet, and then go up his or her body. Many people like to massage the feet followed by the legs, and then skip directly to rub the upper part of the body. Then, they move back to the stomach region, and gradually touch the pelvic area. Note that it is often desirable to spend more time massaging certain areas than others. Also, certain areas require deep strokes, while certain other body parts respond best to soft massages. Experiment to find out what works in which area and what does not.
Make your movements continuous, and try not to interrupt the flow. That way, you will be enhancing the overall intimacy. As erotic massages are meant to arouse the receiving person, continuous movements often show best results.
Communication is important, especially if you have never got engaged in couple massages before. You do not have to ask questions with every movement. However, occasionally asking whether your partner would like softer and slower motions on a particular area should be good.
In addition, pay close attention to the breathing patterns exhibited by your partner. You will know what makes him or her aroused if you pay enough attention.
You will not be able to find the absolute right way of giving erotic massages even if you try, because such a thing does not exist. Giving a great massage is all about being attuned to the reactions of your partner, and gauging his or her movements correctly. With experience you will be able to judge things more accurately, and give better massages. For the time being, enjoy your erotic massage sessions to experience heightened romantic emotions in your relationship.